By Lou Yeboah
(EMPIRE NEWS NETWORK—ENN)— “What you’ve done to me is already done back to you….Celie: [holding a knife to Albert’s throat] I curse you. Until you do right by me; everything you think about is gonna crumble! [Sofia]: Don’t do it Miss Celie. Don’t trade places with what I been through. [Shug]: Come on Miss Celie let’s go to the car. [Sofia]: He ain’t worth it, he ain’t worth it. [Albert]: Who you think you is? You can’t curse nobody… [Celie]: Until you do right by me, everything you even think about gonna fail! The jail you planned for me is the one you gonna rot in! Time for me to get away from you, and enter into Creation. And your dead body’d be just the welcome mat I need. [Grady]: It’s been a pleasure meeting all of you. Good-bye.”
“You
reap what you sow” is a well-known idiom, but this principle is also Biblical.
The Lord gives principles in Scripture to serve as warnings and as an encouragement.
In [Galatians 6:7], His Word states, “Do not be deceived, God is not
mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap.” The principle
applies to everyone, both Christians and non-Christians. This principle is
irrevocable; there is no escape, either for the believer or for the unbeliever.
It is a law of life. But herein lies the root cause of the careless and
indulgent lifestyle of many people. They are deceived. They either do not
believe the truth, or they think they will somehow be the exceptions to God’s
laws. But as [2 Corinthians 5:10] reveals: “We must all appear before the
judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may be recompensed for his deeds in
the body, according to what he has done, whether good or bad.”
The
fact that we reap what we sow is good news for those who sow good habits, but a
frightening thought for those currently involved in ungodly activities such as
promiscuity, drug and alcohol abuse, neglect of family, or mistreatment of
others in order to climb the ladder of success. We cannot sow crabgrass and
expect to reap pineapples. We cannot sow disobedience to God and expect to reap
His blessing. What we sow, we reap. Let us not deceive ourselves: We will reap
the harvest of our lives.
I
don’t know who this is for, but spitting out a bunch of hostile, angry, mean,
resentful words at someone is not going to help. It is not going to make you a
better person, it is not going to make them a better person, and it won’t
improve your relationship. Just because you feel something doesn’t mean you
have to say it. And you don’t have to let your feelings control your actions. Much
of living the Christian life comes down to how well we get along with other
people. Scripture makes it plain that God places tremendous value on unity.
As
you go through life you’re going to find some people who simply rub you the
wrong way. Maybe they don’t do anything specific—but there’s something about
them that gets under your skin. Also, there will be times when you find that
you rub someone else the wrong way. You might not have anything against this
person, but they’ve got something against you. No matter how hard you try,
they’ve decided in advance not to like you. I tell you, take the high road.
Your actions are more important than your feelings. Sometimes you have to cover
your feelings by “putting on” the right behavior. Your feelings may
be sending you in one direction emotionally, but you can clothe yourself with
attitudes and behavior that move you in the right direction. Paul said,
“Put on compassion…put on kindness…put on gentleness.” You may
not feel these things, but you can “put them on”—at least
temporarily. Some people say, “That seems hypocritical,” but it’s
not. If you feel dislike for another person, and you show them kindness, you’re
not being hypocritical, you’re being holy! Besides, the Bible never tells us
that we will be judged according to our feelings. It says again and again we
are judged according to our actions. You can’t always control the way you feel,
but you can control the way you dress. So, dress for success! Clothe yourselves
with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. When you deal
with conflict you put your feelings aside and you put a layer of holiness
between you and the other person.
As
[Matthew 7:12] says, “In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you
want them to treat you, for this is the Law and the Prophets.” It is written in
Proverbs to “ponder the path of your feet, and … remove your foot from evil.” [Proverbs
4:26-27]. We need to think about our
choices and what the consequences of our choices are. They can lead to
corruption, or to eternal life. “Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for
whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.
Everything
in life goes exactly according to what is written in God’s Word. There are no
exceptions. This is a law of life that affects everyone, whether a believer or
a non-believer.
As [Celie] said: Dis life
be ova soon. Heaven last always.
The Color Purple – a film based on Alice Walker’s
novel, directed by Steven Spielberg