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Letter to the Editor: Unveiling the Hidden Truth in The Battle Over Books in American Schools

By Craig J. DeLuz | Special to California Black Media Partners

In the ongoing debates about book bans in American schools, there is one narrative that dominates the discussion: those who oppose certain materials in school libraries are merely “book banners,” seeking to censor and limit the free exchange of ideas.

However, a controversy last year that unfolded at a Miami public school reveals a more nuanced narrative.

Reports about the incident, which attracted international attention, suggested that the K-8 school banned Amanda Gorman’s celebrated poem that she recited at President Biden’s inauguration. In reality, the school in question opted to relocate Gorman’s masterful work from the elementary section of its library to the middle school division. This measure was not taken with the intent to censor the piece, but rather as a strategic choice to align the poem with the appropriate age group.

In a similar vein, the head of the United Federation of Teachers, Randi Weingarten, wasted no time in voicing her outrage over the termination of a Texas educator who chose to read Anne Frank’s iconic memoir to her students. Taking to the popular social media platform X, Weingarten declared, “The blatant dismissal of a teacher for exposing her students to The Diary of Anne Frank speaks volumes on its own!

However, it is essential to clarify that the book, “Anne Frank’s Diary,” is not the original work that has touched the hearts of millions. Instead, it’s an adaptation that emphasizes sexual passages. It was not, as many have claimed, a “censored” version of Anne Frank’s story, but one that deliberately highlights the most salacious and explicit elements. The educator tasked her eighth-grade pupils with reciting and debating a sexually suggestive excerpt from the adaptation, where Anne inquires if her friend would be willing to expose their breasts to one another and expresses a strong longing for a kiss. Unbeknownst to many, this incident, branded as a potentially oppressive, stemmed from concerned parents’ reaction to the educator’s focus on erotic themes within the beloved Anne Frank story.

Then there is Toni Morrison’s The Bluest Eye, published in 1970; a tale chronicling the journey of a young Black girl grappling with feelings of inadequacy due to her lack of blue eyes. While critically acclaimed for its commentary on race and racial identity, this novel also delves into themes of pedophilia, rape, and even incest. It’s this content (not its racial commentary that led to frequent calls for censorship and its banning from classrooms in numerous school districts across the United States.

These examples highlight the deceptive tactics used by those who seek to paint concerned parents as intolerant and hateful.

However, the heart of these book bans lies in the moral disconnect between the majority of Americans and the education establishment. While most Americans believe that sexually explicit material has no place in school libraries, the education establishment continues to champion the idea that it is necessary and even “inclusive” to expose children to explicit images and descriptions of sexual acts.

It is not about censorship or restricting the free exchange of ideas, as some suggest. Rather, it’s about safeguarding the innocence and well-being of our children. It is about standing up against the normalization of sexually explicit material in places where children should feel safe and protected. Ultimately, it is about upholding societal values and principles.

In the ongoing debates about book bans, we must not allow ourselves to be swayed by misleading narratives and manipulative language. Honest and open discussions are crucial to understanding what truly hangs in the balance of our society’s moral compass and the well-being of our children. Anything less would be a disservice to future generations.


About the Author

Craig J. DeLuz has almost 30 years in public policy and advocacy.  He is currently President of the Robla School District Board of Trustees where he has served for almost 20 years. You can follow him on X at @CraigDeLuz.

 

 

Rep. Aguilar Hosts Commemoration Ceremony for Inland Empire Vietnam Veterans

SAN BERNARDINO, CA— As part of the national Vietnam Veterans Commemoration, Rep. Pete Aguilar hosted a commemoration ceremony for Inland Empire Vietnam War veterans.

In advance of the National Vietnam War Veterans Day on March 29, Rep. Aguilar presented Vietnam Veterans with the Vietnam Veterans Lapel Pin provided by the Department of Defense.

“The veterans honored at this event, and the thousands of Inland Empire veterans who served in Vietnam, have made extraordinary sacrifices for our country,” said Rep. Pete Aguilar. “I’m glad to have hosted this commemoration ceremony to recognize their patriotism and dedication, and I will continue to fight on behalf of the veterans in our community to ensure they have access to the benefits they’ve earned.”

“We appreciate Congressman Aguilar coming out to VFW Post 6476 in Colton to recognize our Vietnam Veterans. Ceremonies like this one reassure our Vietnam Veterans that their service to the nation is not forgotten,” said Bernie Moyeda, Commander of Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 6476, Colton, CA, and Vietnam Veteran.

Last year, Rep. Aguilar’s bill, the Wounded Warrior Access Act, was signed into law. This bill streamlines veterans’ benefits claims process, so veterans can access their benefits more easily and in a timely manner.

Photos from the event can be found here.

City of San Bernardino Names Gabriel Elliott as Director of Community Development and Housing

SAN BERNARDINO, CA— The City of San Bernardino has announced that Gabriel Elliott has joined its leadership team as its new Community Development and Housing Director.

“Gabriel Elliott has a diverse and distinguished background in planning and community development,” said City Manager Charles Montoya. “His experience in these areas will be instrumental in moving projects forward like the General Plan Update and the recently funded $35 million Community Wellness Campus.”

Elliott’s appointment as Community Development and Housing Director became effective March 18. Prior to joining San Bernardino, Elliott was the Director of Planning for the County of Calaveras.

“I am excited to join the City of San Bernardino as Director of Community Development and Housing,” said Elliott. “I plan to lead with empathy, as the most important virtue in community development leadership is empathy.”

Elliott has over 30 years in planning and community development for local government agencies. In addition to his work for Calaveras County, Elliot served as the City Manager and Development Services Director for the City of Adelanto, as well as leadership positions with the City of Salinas and College Station (Texas).

Elliott holds both a bachelor’s degree in journalism and a master’s degree in urban and regional planning from Texas A&M University.

The Director of Community Development and Housing is responsible for the planning and direction of the Department, which has a staff of 77 employees. This position is responsible for the supervision, financial management and efficient operation of the Planning, Building, Code Enforcement, and Housing an Homelessness divisions within the Community Development and Housing Department.

Time for Change Foundation to Honor Laurena Bolden with the Community Champion Award

SAN BERNARDINO, CA— Time for Change Foundation’s (TFCF) 22nd Annual Awards Gala will honor outstanding individuals and organizations that go above and beyond for our communities and continue to make a difference in the lives of others.

Laurena “Lala” Bolden embodies the spirit of community and service, deeply rooted in her upbringing and family values. A proud native of Highland, CA, Laurena’s journey is intertwined with her commitment to giving back and uplifting those around her. Raised on the San Manuel Indian Reservation, Laurena learned the importance of community involvement from her mother, Alaina, and her grandparents, James & Rowena. Their dedication to serving others inspired Laurena to follow in their footsteps, becoming a beacon of hope and support in her own right.

As a devoted wife and mother of two boys, Laurena leads by example, prioritizing family values and community engagement. Her involvement in the San Manuel Tribal Council as a Councilmember and Vice Chair of the tribe’s Education Board underscores her dedication to her tribal community.

Guided by the foundational principle of “Putting God first in everything we do” and the belief in offering a “hand up” whenever possible, Laurena’s compassion knows no bounds. Her support to various youth sports’ leagues and collaboration with Loma Linda University Health reflect her commitment to promoting pediatric and behavioral health initiatives.

In the words of her grandmother, “Laurena understands the importance of paying forward the kindness and generosity she has received.”

“Laurena’s heart for the community is evident in her life. Her generosity and commitment to helping others throughout various efforts show a true community champion and we are honored to be giving her this award”, said Vanessa Perez, Executive Director.

Other Award Honorees include:

Bobby Wagner, football player of the NFL, with the Philanthropist of the Year Award; Rev. George Lamb at F.A.C.C.T with the Lifetime Achievement Award; Dr. Rita (Faridah) Ali from We 2 Matter with the Humanitarian Award; Dawn Downs to receive the Businesswoman of the Year Award; Kellie Todd Griffin at CA Black Women’s Collective with the Michelle Obama Courage Award; Pastor Craig Hadley from Paradox Church with the Nancy Varner Angel Award; and Rialto ROTC with the Ramos Family Spirit of Compassion Award.

Time for Change Foundation’s 22nd Annual Awards Gala will be held on Friday, April 19, 2024, at the DoubleTree Hotel in Ontario, California at 6:00 p.m. PST. To support the work of Time for Change Foundation, you can become a sponsor, purchase an ad in the event program book, or purchase a Gala ticket.

To register for the event or to become a sponsor and increase your business’s visibility in the community, please visit our website at www.TimeForChangeFoundation.org, or contact Florence White at (909) 886-2994 or by email at fwhite@timeforchangefoundation.org.

Two Students Crowned San Bernardino County Spelling Bee Champions Headed to Scripps National Spelling Bee

SAN BERNARDINO, CA— The San Bernardino County Spelling Bee concluded with exhilarating victories, showcasing exceptional linguistic scholars from across the region. Representing a diverse array of school districts and charter schools, the competition culminated in a thrilling event between the county’s finest spellers.

San Bernardino County Superintendent of Schools (SBCSS) hosted the annual competition at San Bernardino Valley College on March 13.

This year’s champions emerged from the ranks of Etiwanda School District. Shrey Parikh, a sixth-grade student, and Srikanth Satheesh Kumar, an eighth-grade student, demonstrated exceptional skill and composure throughout the competition.

“The San Bernardino County Spelling Bee serves as a testament to the dedication and talent of our students,” said County Superintendent Ted Alejandre. “It’s inspiring to witness their hard work and determination on display, showcasing their semantic skills in such a challenging and prestigious competition.”

Sixth-grader Parikh solidified his victory after correctly spelling the word “rarefaction.” Satheesh Kumar was named the co-champion after providing the correct spelling of the word “recrudescent.”

The champions will now prepare to compete on the national stage where they will represent San Bernardino County during the Scripps National Spelling Bee in May.

Parikh expressed gratitude for the opportunity to participate in such a prestigious event. “Thank you to my mom and dad, family, and my teacher Ms. Miller and to all the spelling bee organizers,” said Parikh.

“I would like to thank my mom, dad, and my brother for support and always being there for me. I will always be thankful for my teachers for encouraging me,” said eighth grader Satheesh Kumar.

Participating school districts in this year’s Spelling Bee included Alta Loma SD, Apple Valley Unified SD, Central SD, Etiwanda SD, Ontario-Montclair SD, San Bernardino City Unified SD, Snowline Joint Unified SD, Upland Unified SD, and Victor Valley Union High SD. Students from Empire Springs Charter, Granite Mountain Charter, and Inland Leaders Charter also participated in this year’s competition.

The San Bernardino County Spelling Bee not only celebrates academic achievement but also fosters a sense of camaraderie and sportsmanship among participants.

The top five 2024 Spelling Bee Champions are:

  • First Place Champion – Shrey Parikh, Day Creek Intermediate School
  • First Place Champion – Srikanth Satheesh Kumar, Heritage Intermediate School
  • Second Place Champion – Ruiee Shih, Day Creek Intermediate School
  • Third Place Champion – Abheri Sureddi, John L. Golden Elementary School
  • Fourth Place Champion – Afiyah Ashrafi, Spring Charter Schools
  • Fourth Place Champion – Anika Crowe, Granite Mountain Charter School
  • Fourth Place Champion – Katherine Odell, Spring Charter Schools
  • Fourth Place Champion – Leilani Saito, Sitting Bull Academy
  • Fifth Place Champion – Summer He, Caryn Elementary School
  • Fifth Place Champion – Sophia Raqueno, Ruth Musser Middle School
  • Fifth Place Champion – Yahya Tchich, Summit Intermediate School

For more news and information, visit the SBCSS Newsroom and follow us @SBCountySchools on FacebookX (formerly Twitter)InstagramLinkedIn and YouTube.#transforminglives

 

Come Join the Social Lites, Inc. Beautillion Ball

SAN BERNARDINO, CA—- Join the Social Lites Inc., for an unforgettable evening at its Beautillion Scholarship Program. This exciting event will take place on Saturday, March 30, 2024, at California State University, San Bernardino. Get ready to witness an extraordinary showcase of talent, grace, and intellect as the community honors and celebrates outstanding young men in the community.

Throughout the evening, you’ll be captivated by the exceptional performances and presentations from the remarkable scholarship candidates. These young men have demonstrated remarkable leadership, academic excellence, and community involvement, making them true inspirations for the next generation. As you mingle with fellow attendees, you’ll have the opportunity to connect with community leaders, educators, and like-minded individuals who share a passion for empowering our youth.

The Social Lites, Inc. Beautillion Scholarship Program is not only a celebration but also a chance to build meaningful connections and foster a supportive network.

In addition to the program, the organization will also honor Chief Joe Paulino, Edward Brantley, Wallace Allen, Alton Garrett, Hardy Brown Sr., Hardy Brown Jr., Robert Bivens, and other recipients, Social Lites Inc., recognizes the importance of celebrating those who selflessly dedicate their time and energy to making the world a better place. Their contributions serve as a reminder that each of us has the power to effect positive change and leave a lasting impact on our communities.

Mark your calendars for Saturday, March 30, 2024, at 5:30 PM and make your way to California State University, San Bernardino to be a part of this momentous occasion as we recognize and uplift these extraordinary young men. We look forward to seeing you there!  Tickets can be purchased by contacting Marlene Davis (909)709-5502.

41st Black History Bee Winners Announced

SAN BERNARDINO, CA— San Bernardino City Unified School District (SBCUSD) students from Jones, Muscoy, E. Neal Roberts and Thompson Elementary Schools, Paakuma’ K–8 School and Del Vallejo and Shandin Hills Middle Schools proved their knowledge of Black and African American history and took the top prizes during the 41st Annual Black History Bee on Saturday, Feb. 24 at Indian Springs High School.

During the Black History Bee, teams of two students competed in a spelling bee-like event, with each team demonstrating their knowledge of Black and African American history and culture, including local historical figures.

During select rounds, students were also asked to either identify or recite stanzas from the works of famous African American poets.

The winning teams were:

  • Third- and Fourth-Grade Division
    • First Place: Kenia Sandoval and Solei’ Lockett, Jones Elementary School
    • Second Place: Tamel Belton and Ezekiel Corona, Muscoy Elementary School
    • Third Place: Jaceer Gray and Malachi Arlington, Thompson Elementary School
  • Fifth- and Sixth-Grade Division
    • First Place: Javier Torres-Martinez and Kevin Ortiz-Ramirez, Jones Elementary School
    • Second Place: Ayden Martinez and Javon Wilson, Jones Elementary School
    • Third Place: Joi Avery and Faith Kemp-Stallworth, Roberts Elementary School
  • Middle School Division
    • First Place: Winter Williams and Faith Manago, Paakuma’ K–8 School
    • Second Place: Liam Harris and Kaylee Bush, Paakuma’ K–8 School
    • Third Place: My Asia Boyd and Zha’raea Jackson, Del Vallejo and Shandin Hills Middle Schools

For 41 years, the National Sorority of Phi Delta Kappa, Inc. (NSPDK), Delta Rho Chapter sponsored the Black History Bee for SBCUSD elementary and middle school students. SBCUSD’s Department of Equity & Targeted Student Achievement (ETSA) was proud to partner with Delta Rho Chapter for the first time for their 41st Black History Bee.

“We are grateful to the National Sorority of Phi Delta Kappa, Inc., Delta Rho Chapter and to the individual ladies of the organization for keeping the Bee going in San Bernardino,” said ETSA Director Dr. Wil Greer. “Over the past 41 years, they have educated generations of students on the richness of Black History. We are proud to sponsor and partner with them in this very important endeavor.”

For information on the services and support offered by ETSA,

visit https://www.sbcusd.com/departments/educational-services-division and select Equity & Targeted Student Achievement from the list at the left.

For more information about Delta Rho Chapter, visit https://sites.google.com/view/nspdkdeltarho/home.

23rd Annual Empowering Young Women Conference to Inspire and Impact

RIVERSIDE, CA— The Adrian Dell & Carmen Roberts Foundation (ADCR) is proud to announce the 23rd Annual Empowering Young Women Conference, an event dedicated to empowering girls aged 12 to 21. Themed “Know Your Value,” this year’s conference will be a transformative experience for young women looking to unlock their potential.

Taking place on Saturday, March 23, 2024, from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m., at the RCC Digital Library on 4800 Magnolia Avenue in Riverside, California, the conference offers a unique hybrid format with both in-person and virtual attendance options.

Attendees can look forward to engaging sessions throughout the day including hot topics group discussions, innovative challenges, and opportunities for personal growth. This year’s event promises exciting activities such as a photo booth, prizes, breakfast, lunch, and much more – all provided free of charge.

Registration is mandatory and available at adcrfoundation.org for those eager to join this inspiring gathering focused on empowering young women in a supportive and enriching environment.

Southern California Black Chamber of Commerce-Inland Cities East Chapter Celebrates National Women’s Month

SAN BERNARDINO, CA – The Southern California Black Chamber of Commerce-Inland Cities East Chapter is proud to announce its celebration of National Women’s Month. The event will honor outstanding women making significant contributions to their communities and industries.

This year, the chapter will recognize Rashawn Harris, Founder of The San Bernardino Xsplosive Drill Team Drill & Drum Squad and esteemed Entrepreneur/Hair Stylist, alongside Vickie Davis, CFO of Stronger Together Now and the visionary Creator of Black on the Block in the city of Rialto.

The highlight of the event will be an inspiring keynote address delivered by Felicia Alexander, Trustee for San Bernardino City Unified School District and President of the Alexander Family Foundation. Attendees will also be treated to a special solo performance by Gwen Dowdy-Rodgers, a San Bernardino County Board of Education Board Member representing Area D. Culinary delights will be provided for a small fee by featured food truck, Roni’s Ribs.

Details for the celebration are as follows:

  • Date: Monday, March 25th
  • Time: 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm
  • Location: 690 W. 4th Street, San Bernardino

Attendees are encouraged to bring their business cards and network with fellow professionals. Admission is complimentary for members of the Southern California Black Chamber of Commerce-Inland Cities East Chapter and $10 for non-members.

14th Annual Forging Hope Awards Honors Community Excellence

Four organizations receive the prestigious Yawa’ Award from the San Manuel Band of Mission Indians

HIGHLAND, CA— The 2024 Forging Hope Awards, hosted by the San Manuel Band of Mission Indians, recognized four outstanding nonprofit organizations for their exemplary contributions to the quality of life in the Inland Empire.

Recipients of the 2024 Yawa’ Award, the Tribe’s highest honors, included California Indian Nations College; Keres Children’s Learning Center; National Indian Child Welfare Association; and The Salvation Army.

“Each Yawa’ Award recipient embodies extraordinary dedication to their communities. In our Serrano language, Yawa’ means to ‘act on one’s beliefs.’ We will never forget the kindness extended to our Tribal family before we had the means to envision a brighter future,” said Lynn Valbuena, Chairwoman of the San Manuel Band of Mission Indians. ”It is an honor to stand with these community heroes.”

San Manuel partners with hundreds of organizations each year, giving nearly $400 million since 2002 to organizations serving Inland Empire and Indian Country communities, to reinforce the spirit of Yawa’ and empower positive change.

To learn more about the Tribe’s giving program, visit sanmanuelcares.org.