Happily Divorced And After

By Lou K. Coleman

I want to live and just worry about my everyday life. Well, you go right ahead Boo, Boo. Just know that you will have no one to blame but yourself. For the Bible makes it clear that men are responsible for how they respond to warnings. If you choose not to take interest in the way of escape, then you, and you alone, are responsible for your judgment. The choice is yours. But as a watchman, my job is to warn, that’s it and that’s all.

I have been given a very specific call. And it carries with it great consequences. Those consequences can be God honoring or can bring about death and eternal punishment. For I am reminded in [Ezekiel 33: 1-7] that, if the watchman sees the sword coming and does not blow the trumpet, and the people are not warned, and the sword comes and takes any person from among them, he is taken away in his iniquity; but his blood will be require at the watchman’s hand.” Well not on my watch! As God said to Joel, “Blow the trumpet in Zion, and sound an alarm….” You are hearing the sound of the trumpet blowing! Flee for safety without delay! [Jeremiah 4:5-6]. For we are standing on the threshold of great and solemn events. Many of the prophecies are about to be fulfilled in quick succession. No time to waste. Heed the warnings from God! Because past history will be repeated; old controversies will arouse to new life, and peril will beset God’s people on every side…Study Revelation in connection with Daniel, for history will be repeated…. Satan will employ the same policy, manifest the same spirit and work for the same end, as in all receding ages. Except that the coming struggle will be marked with a terrible intensity such as the world has never witnessed. As the Belarusian President said recently: the world is sounding the warning that time is running out for humanity. Do not be a despiser of warning. “Who can I speak to? Who will listen to my warning?” [Jeremiah 6:10].

They failed to listen to the warnings, and tragedies that might have been averted were not.

By Tanu Henry | California Black Media

The Hon. Margaret Richards-Bowers, 70, a retired registered nurse, community advocate, and former President of the Inglewood Unified School District (IUSD) Board of Education, passed away on Jan.16, 2024, following a prolonged illness.

Born on April 15, 1953, in Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, an island nation in the eastern Caribbean, Margaret Mundus Richards was the eldest of seven children born to Vernon Richards and Enid Banfield Richards.

Richards-Bowers graduated from the prestigious St. Vincent Girls’ High School, where she served as class prefect in her senior year, a role held in high regard and viewed as second only to a teacher in terms of authority and respect. She was the first runner-up in the Miss St. Vincent Teenager contest, and she had the honor of having tea with the late Queen Elizabeth II of England.

In 1972, Richards-Bowers moved to Los Angeles. She worked part-time while studying for an Associate of Arts Degree in Nursing at East Los Angeles College. She later earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Health Service Management from the University of La Verne in Los Angeles County. Although she had interests in acting and singing, she chose a career in nursing for its stability. However, notably, she played a crucial role in the formation of the Pan African Film & Arts Festival, according to Ayuko Babu, the festival’s Executive Director.

“Margaret’s unique perspective, stemming from her Caribbean roots in St. Vincent, and her Los Angeles experiences enriched the festival’s Pan African outlook. Her contributions were pivotal to the festival’s development and will always be cherished,” Babu said.

After becoming a Registered Nurse, Richards-Bowers began her career as Nurse Manager at Pico Psychiatric Medical Clinic. She later joined Daniel Freeman Memorial Hospital in Inglewood, where she served in various roles, including Staff Registered Nurse in the Oncology Unit and Charge Nurse in the Coronary Care Unit. In 1990, she joined Kaiser Permanente, West Los Angeles, serving as a Staff Registered Nurse and Relief Charge Nurse in the Urgent Care Clinic.

While at Kaiser, Richards-Bowers served as the Chairperson of the Employee Congress Committee. She authored the committee’s mission statement and initiated “The Culture of Courtesy” program that promoted an environment of courtesy and respect. In 1998, Richards-Bowers left Kaiser to focus on raising her sons.

Richards-Bowers was deeply involved in volunteer activities. She served as a member of the Los Angeles County Community Emergency Response Team (CERT), the Sheriff’s Community Advisory Committee and as a volunteer deputy at the Ladera Heights Sheriff Community Service Center. She was a director and Vice-President of the Ladera Heights Civil Association in unincorporated LA County, and was a member of the Tuskegee Airmen, Inc., and the National Council of Negro Women.

Richards-Bowers was a community health advocate and Board member of the Citizens Coalition for a Safe Community. She testified before the LA County Planning Commission on the Inglewood Oil Field Community Standards District. She also advocated for environmental considerations and community involvement in a school construction project before the IUSD School Board.

Richards-Bowers, who became a U.S. Citizen in 1996, was deeply involved in political activism even before she could vote. She helped elect local and national candidates that shared her values, like Mervyn Dymally, a fellow Caribbean immigrant, to Congress. Eventually, she became a deputy registrar of voters.

Richards-Bowers participated in several campaigns for former LA Police Chief and City Councilman Bernard Parks who admired her dedication, saying, “Margaret channeled her unwavering political passion into tangible actions. Her journey from grassroots campaigning to becoming a national delegate is a testament to her relentless advocacy. Her legacy will continue to inspire us.”

Furthermore, Richards-Bowers was a member of the New Frontier and Culver City Democratic Clubs, the National Women’s Political Caucus’ South Bay Chapter, and Organizing for America. In 2008, she served in various roles for the Obama for America Campaign, including Precinct Captain, and Volunteer and Resource Coordinator for the 33rd Congressional District. She was elected as a District Delegate for the 2008 Democratic National Convention held in Denver. She had the unique privilege of engaging in conversations with Presidents Clinton and Obama.

Richards-Bowers was a passionate advocate for public education. She held leadership roles, including Co-President of the Frank D. Parent School PTA, and was a member of the IUSD Budget Advisory Committee and Measure GG Bond Committee, which secured $90 million for school facility improvements. She co-founded the Education Equity Coalition when IUSD went into state receivership and advocated for an audit of district management, appearing before the State Legislature twice until the audit was approved.

Richards-Bowers also sought to effect change through elected office. Although her first attempt to join the IUSD School Board was unsuccessful, she persevered and won a seat, eventually serving as President of the Board. Unfortunately, health issues prevented her from running for re-election.

According to current IUSD Board President, Dr. Carliss McGhee, “Margaret Richards-Bowers was my soulmate on the Inglewood school board. Her tireless dedication, love for students, and her spirit and tenacity for progress in education reflect her genuine commitment to ensuring a brighter future for the students she served. Her absence will be felt, and she will be sorely missed.”

Richards-Bowers was not only a dedicated professional and community advocate, but also a published poet, runner, music enthusiast, and an art aficionado.

Richards-Bowers leaves behind a loving family. She is survived by her husband of 37 years, Joe William Bowers Jr., eldest son Shawki Haffar Jr., son Jason Takao Bowers and his wife Roslyn, and cherished grandchildren, Wolfgang and Sachiko. She is also survived by sisters Merlyn, Bernadette, and Jacqueline, and brothers Robert, Leon, Bernard, and Claudon.

The funeral for Richards-Bowers is scheduled for Feb. 5 at the Holy Cross Mortuary, located at 5835 West Slauson Ave, Culver City, CA 90230. The viewing will start at 10:30 AM, followed by services from 12:30 PM to 1:30 PM.

SAN BERNARDINO, CA — The San Bernardino Black Culture Foundation has announced its award winners for 2024, honoring two people for The Dr. Juanita Scott Humanitarian of the Year Award. Foundation President Ezekiel Adeleke said, “We have chosen Dr. Marcus Funchess, Assistant Superintendent of Human Resources of the San Bernardino City Unified School District, and Jack B. Clark, Jr., partner at the law firm of Atkinson, Andelson, Loya, Ruud & Romo.”

Foundation President-elect Carl M. Dameron added, “We are also honoring California State University, San Bernardino, with the Jim King Founders Award.

Black Rose Award winners include Acquanetta Warren, Mayor of Fontana, James C. Baker II, Park Commissioner for the City of Moreno Valley; Michael Beauregard, Assistant Manager at Sam’s Club; Tina Darling, Director of Education at American Career College, Ontario, and Chair of the Nursing and Health Ministry at New Hope Missionary Baptist Church; and Aristotle McDaniel, founder of GPL-Grandparents Love.”

“On behalf of CSUSB’s 20,000 students and 125,000 alumni, we are honored to receive the Founders Award from the Black Culture Foundation,” stated Robert J. Nava, Vice President for University Advancement. “We are proud of our partnership with the Black Rose Foundation and the African American community in the Inland Empire in advocating for educational opportunities to the residents of the Inland Empire.”

The 31st Annual San Bernardino Culture Foundation Black Rose Awards ceremony takes place on Friday, Feb. 23, starting at 5:30 p.m. at The Riverside Convention Center. For tickets to the gala, go to the Black Culture Foundation website at:  https://sbbcfoundation.org/events/2024-black-rose-awards/.

To become a Black Rose Awards sponsor, go to https://blackculturefoundation.square.site/.

To become a volunteer or board member, send an email to blackrose@sbbcfoundation.org.

The Heisman Trophy winner is celebrated with a parade, received a Key to the City and Cajon High School Football Stadium named in his Honor.

By Angela M. Coggs

SAN BERNARDINO — The cold temperature and rain did not stop the residents of San Bernardino from celebrating Cajon High School graduate Jayden Daniels with a parade on Saturday, January 20, 2024.

Jayden Daniels, affectionally known as, “That Kid Jayden” received a hometown welcome fit for the Legend he is destined to become. The Heisman Trophy winner returned to San Bernardino with a parade, presented with a key to the city by Mayor Helen Tran and a stadium renamed in his honor.

Daniels returned to his hometown as a 2023 Heisman Trophy winner, college football’s most prestigious award, after a record-setting season at Louisiana State University (LSU). Winning this honor has been a dream of his since he was 10 years old. Daniels had the support of the community as evinced by everyone taking to social media to encourage everyone to cast their vote daily for him to be the Heisman trophy winner.

His quiet demeaner and bright smile broke through the clouds and rain as he presided over the very football field he once dominated. “I’m happy to see all the kids out here,” Daniels said. “I hope I give you all hope and inspiration. I love everyone from San Bernardino and I’m happy to be from San Bernardino.”

Family, friends, and fans defied the downpour as they waited on the crowded Cajon football field for the LSU quarterback’s Mardi Gras-themed float starting at California State University, San Bernardino and ending at Cajon High Schools football field.

Once Daniels appeared on stage, he was showered with kind remarks and honors from various local dignitaries. San Bernardino Mayor Helen Tran presented Daniels with a key to the city before proclaiming Jan. 20th as “Jayden Daniels Day” in San Bernardino. “May this honor reflect our gratitude for the pride and joy Jayden has brought to us and may his success continue to inspire generations to come,” Tran said. “Your achievements resonate with us all.”

Daniels became the city’s first Heisman Trophy winner, after completing 236 of 327 passes for 3,812 yards and 40 touchdowns for LSU this past season. The senior also rushed for 1,134 yards and 10 touchdowns. He became the school’s third Heisman Trophy winner, joining quarterback Joe Burrow (2019) and halfback Billy Cannon (1959).

Daniels’ 2023 season was acknowledged with several other annual college football awards, including the Davey O’Brien Award, Johnny Unitas Golden Arm Award, Walter Camp Player of the Year and Associated Press Player of the Year. He also earned consensus All-American status.

While in high school, Daniels spent four years as a varsity quarterback, leading coach Nick Rogers’ Cajon Cowboys to a CIF-SS Division 4 Championship in 2017. He used his dual-threat ability to compile 12,482 total yards and 153 total touchdowns in his high school career and established himself as a four-star prospect in the 24/7sports composite rankings. His on-field prowess earned him a scholarship to Arizona State University to play for head coach Herman Edwards and associate head coach Antonio Pierce, now head coach of the Las Vegas Raiders. Daniels is the third Heisman Trophy winner from LSU. The other two to receive the honor, Billy Cannon and Joe Burrow. Daniels racked up 50 total touchdowns in the Purple and Gold during the 2023 season.

Despite his high school success, Daniels never owned a Cajon letterman’s jacket until when the San Bernardino City Unified School District Board of Education presented him with one Saturday.

“I don’t even know what to say,” Daniels said. “I’m just blessed for everyone supporting me. …  I appreciate everyone who came out here who’s supported me since I was a kid and they watched me grow up.”

The crowd was asked to turn its attention to the Cajon football stadium press box as a banner dropped and read “Jayden Daniels Stadium.” This was an emotional moment in time as the crowd exploded with cheers and tears.

“Just to have a stadium named after me is dope and something I never could have dreamed of. I’m proud to be from San Bernardino,” he said.

The driving force behind any successful person is typically the love and support of family. For Daniels, his cup surely ‘runneth over’. Family gives the roots to stand tall and strong, without “them” we would all fall. Not only does his mother and father stand in support, both sides of his family have always loved and supported him from day one. However, some important, key family members were not there, and it was felt by all. “Our immediate and entire family from coast to coast is beyond proud of our nephew Jayden Daniels, the 2023 Heisman Trophy Winner. As well as our brother, Javon Daniels and our father, the late Danny Daniels, who both played a major part in supporting Jayden and always being available to him during this long process,” said his paternal aunts Feledier “Let” Thrower and Yolanda “Angel” Cohill. “We were overwhelmed with tears of joy. Although our parents are no longer with us, they would be proud. Our daddy’s name (Daniels) will be a legacy with the Jayden Daniels Football Stadium as well as throughout San Bernardino and the nation,” exclaimed the sisters with tears in their eyes. “We are forever grateful to God be the glory.”

Family support is number one, however teachers are privy to having a front row seat to greatness in the making. “As a teacher you often talk to your students about their future, their goals and their dreams. To be able to watch one of your former students be able to realize part of that dream is amazing,” stated Mrs. Singer, Daniels former middle school English teacher. “In my class we had two mantras: ‘Believe it, Achieve it’ and ‘Show up and Show out’. Jayden had the belief in himself and now he is on his way to achieving all he has dreamed of. He has proven to show up and show out time after time and I am excited to see all the great things he will do in the future,” Singer said proudly. I know today will be the first of many honors as Jayden continues to change the narrative of San Bernardino.”

Daniels will take the next step in his football career as he pursues a career in the National Football League. He’s been projected by ESPN’s Mel Kiper Jr. to go as high as a top-five pick in the NFL draft in April. The draft will take place in Detroit, starting on Apr. 25, 2024.

The quarterback signed fans’ memorabilia which included tiny footballs, Cajon and LSU hats and a Raiders jersey.

Mattison, who starred at San Bernardino High School and Boise State University, participated in the parade and spoke on stage after embracing Daniels.

“I remember back in the day when he was running for the TJ Striders,” the Vikings running back said. “He was a quiet, humble and fast kid blazing it on the track, but now you’re blazing a new path that brings hope for a kid who was told he couldn’t and breeds confidence for a kid who’s never seen it before.”

In addition to the local community coming out to support Daniels, one of his friends and former classmates proudly watched the live stream from Japan even though it was 3am. He did not want to miss witnessing the momentous event. “I am proud and excited for my friend Jayden to be living the dream we all knew he was capable of. It shows that his hard work, dedication, and determination paid off,” remarked Yonathan Habtemariam. “All though he has made it this far, I know this is just the beginning for him. He’s an inspiration of character and will continue to be for the younger generation especially for the youth in San Bernardino.” Habtemariam and Daniels met in the sixth grade and have been friends since they attended Richardson Prep High Middle School and graduated from Cajon High School in 2019.

Another person that was very instrumental during Daniels formative years was Ernie Burries, former football coach and current teach at Arroyo Valley High School. “Jayden has always been a star and one of if not the best player on the team every year he played football. Jayden has always been humble like his dad Javon yet on the field ready to take care of business like his mother Regina off the field.”

Burries unapologetically declared, “Jayden would be one of a few players that would get up and ride with me to the gym at 5am work out and still get to school on time and excel in the classroom.” When asked about Daniels work ethic on the field and football IQ, without hesitation his former coach stated, “Jayden was and has always been a student of the game and because of that, he is and was smarter than a lot of us coaches. Jayden made all of those who have ever coached him look good and better than we were and we all definitely appreciate him for that.” Burries has been very supportive to all his former players. “Personally, I try to always support any and all of the kids I have coached and or mentored. I’ve seen him play in Arizona, in Washington verses his former teammate Jeremiah Martin, and at Death Valley. He along with other former collegiate players are just as excited seeing us come out as we are seeing them play.” That kind of support is priceless. “Jayden has a solid foundation around him and even if not for the football success he is/was destined to be great.”

Although it was an accomplishment to leave San Bernardino in pursuit of an education, whilst achieving his lifelong dreams and goals…. Having a key to the City will ensure and remind Daniels that San Bernardino is his forever home and he is welcomed home anytime. He is the holder of the key to San Bernardino and his future. San Bernardino believes in you, Jayden. This writer will continue to pray for and will always believe in you. Stay the course and keep your eye on the prize. This is your HOME.

By Rev. Dr. Barbara Reynolds

Not another King dying far too soon. This was the immediate reaction of many at the news that Dexter Scott King, the youngest son of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Coretta Scott King had died from prostate cancer at age 62. In 2007 his sister Yolanda died at age 52.

At the time of his death, Dexter had served as both chairman of The King Center and President of the King Estate. In that capacity he engaged in legal intellectual property fights with corporations, federal agencies, and court suits with family members to protect his parents’ legacy. His strongest crusade, however, was his battle to bring to justice those responsible for his father’s murder.

Born in Atlanta on Jan. 30, 1961, he was named after Dexter Avenue Baptist Church in Montgomery, Alabama, where his father served in his first pastorate and helped launch the famous Montgomery Bus Boycott. He was the second-born son of Dr. King and Mrs. King and was only 7 years old when his father was assassinated in Memphis on April 4, 1968.

For years, Dexter King—who has an amazing resemblance to his globally acclaimed father, confessed that when he “looked in the mirror he saw his father’s face trapped in mine.” In his memoir “Growing Up King,” he spoke of gazing upon the writing on his father’s crypt, “Free At Last,” and feeling that same sense of freedom. Yet he was freed in a different way- not in death – but in the resolution of living his best life on his own terms and not becoming a prisoner of the King name.

As a journalist and later biographer of Coretta Scott King, I was in and out of the King household since the seventies watching their becoming years. As a teenager Dexter used to love talking about one day becoming a businessman and he started his first enterprise, a music company where he hired himself out as a disk jockey for weddings. In later years, his zest for business skills took root at the King Center, where he sometimes took the reins of the King Center with his siblings helping it to become a Beloved world house of peace and non-violence.

Coretta King said all four siblings—Martin III, Yolanda, Dexter, and Bernice had inherited specific qualities from her and their father. Yolanda had a love for the performing arts and became an actress. Martin III, a social justice activist; Bernice, a Call to ministry and pastoral and organizational leadership; and Dexter, a drive to master the complexities of life by pushing forward, overcoming the most difficult problems, even when at the very root he had to overcome himself.

Confronted with the fear of death, instead of running from it, he freed himself by running into it. At age 16, he started working at a funeral home, the same one that buried his father. The experiences in the mortuary he attributed to his quest to come to terms with death and dying. To understand the intricacies of the criminal justice system, in 1982, for a short spell, he became a police officer in Atlanta. His stance to wear a uniform with a sidearm shocked the principled non-violent, anti-gun workers at the King Center. But he was determined to understand the system from the inside out.

Dexter also wanted to test his acting abilities. With his uncanny resemblance to his father, he portrayed him in the 2002 television movie “The Rosa Parks Story.” His love for the creative arts drew him to relocate to California but he also continued his work with the King Center and commitment to the King family legacy,

As deftly as he helped free himself from fear and tradition, he also took responsibility for freeing his family, especially his mother, from digging their graves with their forks.  He became a strict vegetarian, giving up sugars and starches until his body craved natural foods. He said he was bothered that his grandfather, Daddy King, might have lived a longer life had he eaten differently. At her son’s insistence, Coretta, who had mastered the art of rich Southern style cooking, became a vegetarian. Once when I traveled with her to a Florida spa, I was dismayed that for a week, they served nothing but raw vegetables and veggie smoothies. Yet, she also believed her strict regimen eased her pain from gout and other discomforts prolonging her life. She died at the age of 78.

Both mother and son shared an intense determination to prove to the nation that James Earl Ray did not kill Martin Luther King Jr, that his murder was the result of a conspiracy involving the U.S. government and the assassins should be held accountable.

In the early 1990’s I picked Dexter up at the DC airport and took him to the National Press Club where I had helped arrange a briefing on the assassination. He spoke about his plans to meet with Ray and that he believed Ray’s claim of innocence and, based on other evidence, felt along with other family members that Ray was not the lone assassin.

On December 8, 1999, Dexter and Mrs. King, on behalf of the family, pursued a civil suit in Memphis. A jury of six Whites and six Blacks unanimously implicated U.S. government agencies in the wrongful death of Dr. King. The shocking evidence convinced the jury that Dr. King had been the victim of assassination by a conspiracy involving the Memphis Police Department as well as local, state, and federal government agencies, and the Mafia. The Jury also concluded, just as Dexter had argued all along, that Ray was not the shooter, but had been set up as a patsy to take the blame.

This news, where both Dexter and Mrs. King testified, should have rocked the world, but unfortunately it landed like the noise of a feather hitting the ground. The verdict and shocking testimony were virtually ignored by the media – as it is today.

Dexter was often criticized for his insistence on following up on details ignored by the press, but he argued that it was hard for him to believe looking into his father’s murder was somehow illogical.

Yet, even in this failure, Dexter believed as his mother did, that they had both freed themselves of the guilt of not pushing for the truth. So many times, they had heard their father and husband say, “Truth crushed to Earth Shall Rise Again.”

And they left this world believing that one day it would.

The Rev. Dr. Barbara Reynolds is co-author of the memoir, Coretta Scott King: My Life, My Love, My Legacy. 

SAN BERNARDINO, CA – On February 4th, 2024, Omnitrans will join neighboring transit agencies in celebrating Transit Equity Day by providing FREE rides on all fixed-route bus services in San Bernardino County! Transit Equity Day is a collaborative effort of several organizations to promote public transit as a civil right and a strategy to combat climate change. Transit Equity Day is celebrated on February 4th each year in honor of Rosa Parks’ birthday. Parks, a civil rights pioneer in Montgomery, Alabama, is an iconic figure who famously refused to give up her seat on a bus to a white person in December 1955.  Her courageous actions ultimately led to the U.S. Supreme Court ruling that segregation on public transit was unconstitutional.

Sacramento Steps Up…

To further honor the legacy of Rosa Parks, SacRT will be installing a “reserved for Rosa Parks” sign to one seat at the front of every bus. This symbolic gesture serves as a reminder of the courage and determination that fueled this fight for transit equity.

“We are proud to celebrate Transit Equity Day by offering free rides and paying tribute to Rosa Parks, whose bravery and commitment to justice continues to inspire us,” said SacRT General Manager/CEO Henry Li. “By providing free access to our transit services, we hope to underscore our dedication to fostering an inclusive and accessible public transit system for all.”

“Public transportation is interwoven in our nation’s pursuit of equity and social justice,” said SacRT Board Chair and Sacramento County Supervisor Patrick Kennedy. “As we reflect on the impacts of the Montgomery Bus Boycotts and the courage and leadership of Rosa Parks, we must acknowledge the important role of public transportation by ensuring equity and accessibility to all of our communities.”